Ella at Sixteen Months!

This is Ella's face when you ask her to show you what is in her mouth!

I am so thankful I was able to be HOME and watch Ella grow over this past month!

Ella at Sixteen Months

• Walks, Walks, Walks
• Has completely changed over to whole milk (no more formula)
• Loves for Carson to chase her
• Runs around everywhere
• Loves to play outside
• Loves, loves, loves shoes (Her pink Crocs are her favorite.)
  
• Loves to put on her mommy's necklaces
• Loves to eat real food and is willing to try just about anything
• Doesn't like any juices at all
• Will NOT drink from any sippy cup, and we have brought and tried them all
• Pitches fits by throwing her body on the ground, kicking her feet, and putting her head straight down on the floor
• Loves to hug her baby dolls
• Thinks Aunt Lizzie is her mommy
• LOVES her Aunt Lizzie to pieces
• Loves to eat Gerber puffs
• Says maa maa, thank you, s(h)ues, shoo, dad, bye bye, hey, cracker, ga ga ga, Trish
  
• Walks to her changing table when she knows her diaper needs to be changed
• Begins pulling down her pants when it is time for a diaper change
• Enjoys riding in the car but must have milk on every trip
• Naps everyday about 11:00
• Takes her daddy by the hand and walks him to her crib every night when she is ready for bed
• Cries herself to sleep at nap time but not at bed time
  
• Enjoys playing in her sandbox and at her new water table
• Must have her pacifier clipped to her at all times
• Unattaches her pacifier string and throws her pacifier over the crib then stands and cries wanting it back
• Must have shoes on all of time
• Loves to give hugs and leans in for kisses
• Cannot stand for someone else to hug or get close to her mommy
• Loves to stand on the bed, look in the mirror, and raise her hands up to say "yay"
• Has learned how to point to her head, eyes, ears, and piggies (thanks to Trisha)
• Loves for someone to play "This Little Piggy" with her toes
• Eats all of the time
• Still has not had her twelve month shots
• Now has ten teeth
• Loves to have her teeth brushed
• Winks with both of her eyes closing at the same time
  
• Continues to melt her mommy and daddy's heart every single day
  

An Amazing Team That Will Always Be!

I have been blessed over the past nine years to work with the most AMAZING team ever!! Throughout the years, our "team" has changed somewhat physically in the building, but we have always remained close as a team of four or five! If it were not for these four special girls, I would have NEVER survived an entire school year. I truly believe that your coworkers are one of the most important components of your job! God truly blessed me with the best ones ever!!!! Last week, we had the opportunity to celebrate my 31st birthday! This birthday celebration was definitely bittersweet because next year our "team" will be down to one. Sara, Carolyn, Deb, and I will all be beginning or continuing our teaching careers at new schools! I pray that we will continue to remain as close as we have been despite the fact that we won't be a door or hallway away. We will definitely have to keep the tradition of our morning phone calls except for this year we will all be so thankful for the one to two minute drive rather than the thirty minute drive. Our conversations will definitely be much shorter!!!!! I love you girls so much!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for bringing a smile to my face each and every day!!!!! I will truly miss seeing you each and every day!!!!

Thursday Thirteen

With Father's Day quickly approaching, I decided to let Carson take control of the beginning of this post!

Thirteen Things I Love About My Daddy
1. When we play baseball
2. When we laugh about BFFs
3. When we watch baseball on the computer
4. When he teaches me how to play baseball on the computer
5. When he takes me to ball games
6. When he takes me to the movies to see Kung Fu Panda
7. When he takes me to Atlanta
8. When he plays outside with me
9. When he sits in the back of the van with me
10. When he gives me hugs everyday after work
11. When he takes me to school everyday
12. When he sits in the water with me at the beach
13. When he comes home to play with me



Thirteen Things Ella Loves About Her Daddy! (with Mommy and Aunt Lizzie's help!)
1. When he calls me "Beautiful"
2. When he gives me my baths every night
3. When he changes my poopy diapers without gagging
4. When he holds me in his lap while he tries to eat
5. When he finally got me out of his and mommy's bed and into my own! (okay, that came from Mommy)
6. When he fixes my morning bottles
7. When he completely spoils me rotten
8. When he dresses me in blue jeans every single time he dresses me without Mommy's help
9. When he "carefully" tosses me and catches me
10. When he turns me upside down
11. When I see his heart melting everyday
12. When he picks me up after coming home from work
13. When he teaches me to love baseball as much as my brother

Daddy, you are the BEST!!!!! We love you!!!!

Another Saturday...

Saturdays are always bittersweet for me. Today marks the seventh Saturday since the accident. Of course, I never wished it would have happened to me, but I now realize more than ever that I am not in control of my life. Sara's mother has been such an inspiration to me throughout these last several weeks. Her positive motivating cards help me view this experience in a much different manner. This week I received this poem from her, and the words have taught me so much!

The Life I Planned

Has someone seen the life I planned?
It seems it's been misplaced.
I've looked in every corner;
It's lost without a trace.

I've found one I don't recognize--
Things missing that were dear;
Promises I'd hoped to keep.
And dreams I'd dreamed aren't here.

Faces I had planned to see,
Hands I planned to hold;
Now absent in the pictures;
Not the way I told.

Has someone seen the life I planned?
Did it get thrown away?
God took my hand from searching;
Then I heard Him say--

"Child, your ears have never heard,
Your eyes have never seen,
Eternal plans I have for you
Are more than you can dream.

You long to walk by sight,
But I'm teaching eyes to see;
I know what I'm doing--
'Till then, you must believe."

He's done so much, I felt ashamed
To know He heard my moans.
To think I'd trade in all He's done
For plans made on my own.

I wept over His faithfulness
And how He'd proved Himself;
How He'd gone beyond my dreams
And said to myself,

"No, my ears have never heard,
My eyes have never seen,
Eternal plans You have for me
Are more than I could dream

Yes, I long to walk by sight
But You're teaching eyes to see;
You know what You're doing--
'Till then, I must believe."

I felt His great compassion--
Mercy unrestrained.
He left me mourn my losses
And showed to me my gains.

I offered Him my future
And released to Him my past.
I traded my dreams
For a plan He said would last.

I get no glimpse ahead;
No certainties at all,
Except the presence of the One
Who will not let me fall.

Are you also searching
For a life you planned yourself?
Have you looked in every corner?
Have you checked on every shelf?

Child, your ears have never heard,
Your eyes have never seen,
Eternal plans He has for you
Are more than you could dream.

Perhaps you long to walk by sight,
But He's teaching eyes to see;
He knows what He is doing--
Child, step out and believe!

Every single day God blesses my life!!! Just within this past week, I am WALKING again just with God's powerful hands leading me. I can walk without the use of a walker or cane. And for anyone who has been by my side throughout this journey, you know that was my ULTIMATE
goal! The simple task of walking to a thirty year old person who had walked most of her life, was definitely a blessing I had taken for granted! God was also my co-pilot this week as I ventured behind the wheel of our new vehicle for the first time. Driving again comfortably is definitely something that is going to take a long time. So, for now I will stick to the safer streets of our neighborhood.

Words could never express how much all of the support and prayers I receive daily continue to mean to me!!!! I know and accept fully that I still have a long road ahead of me!!!! But, I also know that God is faithful and will continue to guide me!!!!!!

A YUCKY Consequence!

I won the bet.

I get to do whatever I want to her drink.

Here comes the low fat spray butter.

I had to add her favorite.. Dr. Pepper! :)

This contains Hershey Syrup, Dr. Pepper, Coke AND Spray Butter AND tea *when she was went to the bathroom*

Here she goes! yuckkkkkkk

On Monday night, Trisha and I decided to return to making bets with Wii bowling! Trisha was able to come up with the night's bet! She decided that whoever lost would have to drink a drink concocted by the winning player! Of course, I won so the fun began... I was kind and only made her have two drinks!!!! I love our Wii bets!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celebrating Life!

Last year I thought my 30th birthday party was AMAZING! This year, the word AMAZING took on a much different meaning! I am so AMAZED and THANKFUL to be alive! Last night, Kelli, Josh, Savannah, Izzy, Freddy, Sabrina, Tripp, Will, Brian, Carson, Ella, and I celebrated my 31st birthday a little early. We met for a fantastic time together at Wild Wings! I could NEVER thank Kelli and Sabrina enough for all that they have done for me over these past six weeks! They are truly phenomenal life-long friends! Girls, this night will definitely have to be added to our List of Memories!

Nine Years Later...

Friday was such an amazing day for me! My first set of students graduated high school. I always said that I wanted to attend their graduation. After my accident, I wasn't so sure that would be a possibility any more. So, I made that one of my goals right from the beginning! I thank God that He not only provided me the opportunity to attend, but that he allowed me to STAND during and after the ceremony. This will definitely be an experience I will never forget!!!!!

Trisha and Sarabeth I am so very proud of you!! I love you both so much!!!!

On Two Feet!!!!!!!!!!

This photo is proof of one HUGE accomplishment for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Trisha and I finally captured our traditional feet photo after quite a long hiatus! I am standing on both feet wearing flip flops with NO ASSISTANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another Answered Prayer!!!!!!!!

I received fabulous news today that there has been significant healing on both sides of the pelvis. Because of the degree of healing, I received permission to put weight on the right leg. As soon as we arrived home, bravery set in. I decided to attempt to WALK to the restroom instead of riding. I was amazed at how "easy" it seemed to walk on both feet again! (with the help of the walker of course) The doctor explained how the breaks are in such an area in the pelvis that will not hinder walking, despite the fact that I may experience pain. She also made it clear that she expects me to be walking without any assistance and driving within the next six weeks. The only "bad" news if there was any is that it will take at least one complete year for complete recovery. God continues to bless me each and every day!

Striving for Some Sort of Normalcy!

I have almost been home for an entire week!!! It has been difficult trying to adjust to life again! Life seems so busy back at home in comparison to the recent life I was used to. I have so enjoyed being somewhat of a mommy to my precious children again!!!! Carson has been the sweetest five year old little boy I have ever met! He loves to hug and kiss me, push me in my wheelchair, and remind me of how his daddy told him he would have to help take care of Mommy once she came home! Ella has changed sooooo much!!! She is NOW WALKING!!!!! It took her fifteen months, but now there is NO stopping her! She is also completely spoiled rotten and has perfected the art of pitching a fit! I never realized how much I missed Car and Roo until I returned home!

We have been blessed from the first day I returned home with visitors and meals!!!!! Thanks to Kelli, we have frequent dinners arriving to our home!!! Meals mean the world to someone who cannot prepare really anything for herself or her family!!!!!!! I thoroughly enjoy company!!!!

Friday was quite difficult around here! The home health nurse came out to visit. While here, she became quite alarmed with my heart rate, blood pressure, and right lung sounds. She immediately called the doctor and suggested that I visit the emergency room!!!!!!!!!!! Those were definitely two words I didn't want to hear again!!! My fabulous husband left work, drove home, and off we headed back to the emergency room! When I arrived my heart rate was 135!!! They immediately moved me to the major care section and a doctor arrived within moments. He ordered MANY tests again! I am thankful to report that all of the tests came back "normal" if there is a such for me anymore. My heart rate returned back to normal before leaving, and he sent me home with medicine to help until I saw my doctor on Tuesday.

Aunt Lizzie got a quick taste of her new life on Saturday when she stayed with us!!!!! She was jumped all over, climbed on, had to carry a whiny baby around on her hip, watched a five year old try to kill flies with Lysol, and of course took great care of her sister!!!!!!!!!!! Trisha also visited on Saturday and brought her Wii! It was great to play again even though I had to sit down this time!!!!!!!!! I am proud to announce that I haven't lost that touch yet! I still beat her!!!!!!! On Saturday night, I had my first "official outing" to Carson's baseball banquet! It was nice to be able to see the team and all of the parents again!

I enjoyed my first Sunday lunch from my wonderful mom on Sunday even though it had to be cooked at my house instead of hers. Sunday night the Brown family came over and cooked out for us!!!!! It was DELICIOUS and of course we enjoyed their company!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Memorial Day was a busy day for us! Carson had a play date with Tripp while Ella had a play date with Clara. Elizabeth, Mom, Carolyn, Trisha, Lindsay, Jordan, and I ventured to school to begin cleaning out my classroom!!!!! I NEVER realized how much stuff a teacher could accumulate within nine years of teaching!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After working most of the day, I am proud to say that we are almost done!

Today marks the day I begin all of my doctor's visits! I am scheduled to see an internal medicine doctor today, so I feel a little anxious! Tomorrow, I visit the orthopedic doctor. I pray that there has been healing and that we will receive an answer as to when I can begin putting weight on my right leg!

Tonight, I will attend the benefit concert being held in my honor! I thank God for allowing me the opportunity to attend!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Home Sweet Home!

Yesterday marked a new milestone on my road to recovery. I "rode" through the door to my home after a month and a day of being in a hospital. I have to say it was an extremely emotional day for me!!! I shed many tears before leaving rehab!!!!!!!!!! I truly believe that experience was one of the BEST experiences of my life. I will be forever grateful for every nurse tech, nurse, doctor, and therapist that I had there!!!! I am still AMAZED at the amount of progress I was able to make in just the two weeks I was there.

Despite the fact that I am now officially home, I still have a long way until I reach full recovery!!! I am still unfortunately on many medications which I hate!!!! I have MANY doctor's appointments scheduled. My home health nurse and therapists visited today. I plan to continue this for the next week or so. As of now, I think outpatient therapy will be better for me!

I continue to be amazed by all of the support that I have received throughout this journey!!!!!! There is absolutely NO way I could be where I am today without my awesome God, family, and friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Calling All Cooks... Or Take-Out!!

Hey, this is Elizabeth (Heather's sister) posting. Heather's friend Kelli emailed me with a great idea to help Heather, Brian, Carson, and Ella. Since Heather will be coming home soon, Kelli wants to organize a schedule for anyone who would like to volunteer to bring meals to the house for the family. This will be a great help to everyone... especially if you know Heather and Brian's cooking skills! :) If you are interested in bringing something one day, email Kelli and let her know if a certain day is best for you. Her email address is KelliandSavy@yahoo.com. Thanks so much for your help! And thank you Kelli for offering to do this for Heather!!! :)

Ella at 15 Months!

Sadly, I have missed out almost completely on Ella's 14th month of life, so here are just a few things that I do know about Ella at 15 months!

• She loves to eat bread and blueberry muffins.
• She reaches for food with her tiny little fingers.
• She is still not walking on her own.
• She loves to walk around holding things and the wall.
• She loves to cuddle with her mommy at the hospital.
• She loves for her daddy to walk her all around the hospital.
• She puts a cell phone up to her ear and says, "Hey".
• She pitches fits quite frequently.
• She has super cute spring and summer clothes thanks to Aunt Lizzie and Grammy.
• She loves staying with Clara everyday.
• She is now sleeping in her crib every single night thanks to her daddy!!!!
• She is getting lots of new teeth!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• She has gotten over her stranger anxiety.
• She completely melts her mommy's heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4 Weeks Ago!

Four weeks ago, life as I knew it came to a screetching halt within a few short moments!!!!! Thankfully, God protected me by keeping all of the extremely traumatic events free from my memory!!!!! I stand amazed and in awe at how God has healed my body over these past four weeks and how he has provided me with the most AMAZING support system!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My very first memory was being moved out of ICU. I can remember my body being consumed with pain and really not sure why. Of course I was highly medicated and continued to be so for the next several days! After several days of being in a regular hospital room, I became more aware of my new "life" and began adjusting accordingly even though it was very difficult physically and emotionally. After a two week stay in the "normal" hospital, I was provided the opportunity to begin my rehab at another facility. Monday will mark my second full week in rehab, and hopefully Tuesday will mark the greatest milestone of all for me- the opportunity to return home!!!!!!!!! Over the past two weeks, God's healing powers have been present constantly!!!!!!! I can now put on my own tennis shoes and even tie them, I can walk at least eighty feet, I can bathe myself, I can completely dress myself, etc. My pain level has tremendously decreased as well!!!!!!!! My nurses, nurse techs, doctor, and therapists have been the absolute BEST!!!!!!!!!!!! I could not have asked for any better care than I have received here!!!! I have and continue to have some minor secondary health issues resulting from the accident and trauma that continue to show up. I pray that those will heal with time, and that my life begins returning to "normal" very soon!!!

Words could never express how much I APPRECIATE every single person who has supported me thoughout this journey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel so undeserving of everything!!!!!!!!! The calls, blog comments, visits, meals, gifts, cards, magazines, games, equipment, hugs, music, pillow cases, etc. have truly brightened my days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A DAY PASS OUT OF THIS HOSPITAL

Part of Heather's physical therapy is to go out into the "world" again to see how she will handle daily obstacles. On Thursday, she had a date with her trainers. She got to go in a car for Mexican at lunch. She didn't say what exactly it was that she ate, but knowing Heather like I do, I would be willing to bet it was a cheese enchilada and beans. Anyway, after her lunch it was a treat of ice cream. She managed to walk to the counter at Brewster's all by herself to order her ice cream. Can you believe all this? Heather has been in the hospital for 28 days, she has gone from ICU to getting out for lunch and ice cream. I bet if there were time, she would have wanted to go to the outlets:)
Heather, we are all so very proud of you. You have the will and the termination that is often lacked in others dealing with the same situation. I really can not imagine all that you have went through to get to this point, but I do know the work you have put in to it and the emotions that you have had to deal with. And after seeing you Wednesday, I felt like crying. At one point in all this I was so very scared for you, really. I almost lost my best friend. Now when I see you, I am just so proud my heart could burst!

*Posted by Kristy

CARSON AND ELLA GO TO A PARTY

Aunt Liz took Carson and Ella to Brianna's 5th Birthday party today. Ella was too sleepy to enjoy herself, but Carson had a great time jumping around, making new friends, and playing a round of basketball.

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A SMALL SET BACK

The last few days have been difficult for Heather. They have discovered that she is allergic to Codeine and has changed her medication. The new medicines don't seem to help as well, but she is trying to adjust. Her physical therapy is strenuous, but she is giving it all she can. The doctor informed her Thursday that she may get to come home May 20th. But then yesterday, she received news that she had a kidney stone. OUCH, I KNOW!! She was literally sick all day yesterday. So if any of you well wishers text or called yesterday and got no response, Heather sends her apologies as her head was in a puke bucket :) Sorry, I just couldn't pass that up. Anyway, as of today, Saturday she seems to be doing better, but sounds very weak on the phone. As for that measly kidney stone, it has passed out of her kidney and is now in her bladder. Hopefully she will pass it soon. She must still continue with her physical therapy. She did some excercises in the bed earlier this morning, and is now waiting on the next set. Ya'll continue to keep her in her prayers.

*Posted by Kristy

A BENEFIT FOR HEATHER

*I saw this on KellysKrazyKids Blog, I thought it would be good to put on Heather's blog. It is truly amazing how people come together to help others. I know her family is so appreciative.*

The O.P. Earle Elementary School PTO is sponsoring a Spring Gospel Concert at the Landrum High School Auditorium on May 27th at 6:30 PM. The Gospel group, Brothers 4, will perform. Admission is free. Donations will be accepted to help defer medical expenses for 4th grade teacher, Heather Cassidy, who was injured in an automobile accident on April 19th. We welcome the community to the concert and appreciate any and all donations for this worthy cause. If you have any questions, please contact Nita High, Principal at O.P. Earle at 457-3416 or e-mail her at nita.high@spart1.org

PIZZA WITH BRIANNA

Carson came over to have pizza with Brianna tonight for dinner. After eating cheese pizza, the 2 of them played on Webkinz and outside. They played on the swingset for a little bit, looked for berries in a tree, and I managed to play a quick inning of baseball with Carson. Carson had a good time. But I have to tell you, Heather, when I went to get Carson, Ella was sitting in the floor and she held them little arms up to me for me to pick her up. My heart just melted. She is just an angel. Don't want to make you all mushy so here are some pics:

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CINCO DE MAYO

There will be no cheese enchiladas for Heather today. Heather has been moved to Mary Black Hospital. Apparently there was a lot of miscommunication and some negligence on the physical therapy's part at Spartanburg Regional. I spoke to Heather around 5:00 today and she had just arrived at Mary Black. She will be on a very extensive physical therapy program that will begin in the mornings and will continue until 3:00. Therefore, she will not be allowed any visitors until after this time. I'm sure that they are going to expect a lot out of Heather, and I know that she may get discouraged at times. Please continue to pray that the Lord gives her the strength she will need to overcome these obstacles that have been placed before her.
*Heather, you are a tough girl. God saw you through that car accident for a reason. He definitely won't let something like "physical therapy" get you down. You be strong, and remember the outcome will be you getting to come home to your husband and kids. Maybe next time I see you, I'll get to take you for a spin outside for some fresh air:) Love ya.



*Posted by Kristy